Rev. Gaven M. Mize
 “Things happen for a reason.” Such ambiguity never actually offers comfort to a person. What this well-meaning platitude does end up doing is cause the hearer to interject their own reason as to why this thing happened to him. It is a horrible form of self-medication. And the worse the situation, the less meaningful this phrase actually is, and the more insulting it truly is. But, we can’t just stand there in the midst of tragedy and say nothing. We want to fix what is broken. But sometimes it’s not possible. You can’t fix a crack in the heart with a hammer.
“Things happen for a reason.” Such ambiguity never actually offers comfort to a person. What this well-meaning platitude does end up doing is cause the hearer to interject their own reason as to why this thing happened to him. It is a horrible form of self-medication. And the worse the situation, the less meaningful this phrase actually is, and the more insulting it truly is. But, we can’t just stand there in the midst of tragedy and say nothing. We want to fix what is broken. But sometimes it’s not possible. You can’t fix a crack in the heart with a hammer.
“Things happen for a reason,” just doesn’t cut it. And Christians have adopted their own version of this. It often happens when standing by the casket of a loved one. “Why did this happen?” “Sin,” says the good-hearted friend. This is, of course, correct. But it is also incomplete. Yes, Christ makes it clear that the wages of sin is death. And God never promised us that all things would be great. But, where is the hope if we stop at “sin” as the reason?
So we must not stop there. People are confronted with their sin at their death and so the craving for the Gospel is a present reality. They desperately need Christ on the cross, more than ever. And why would we ever give those who survive the saint in the coffin a false gospel in the words of “it happened for a reason.” These words imply that God has a plan that hasn’t been carried out. He took them for a reason. What could that reason be?
God’s will has already been carried out: His own Son there on the cross. He looked down on Good Friday and saw those whom He would soon save from the sin that leads to death. And nothing has changed except the tense of the verbs. You have been bought at a precious and ever-giving price. Jesus. He is the reason that we have been rescued from the grave.
The number one promise that God makes throughout Scripture is that He is with us. And He has told us where He is. The presence of God is found in the baptismal Font and on the Altar in His Body and Blood. And this reality of the forgiveness of sins doesn’t leave us as we leave the church building. It doesn’t leave us as we grow weary and tired of this wicked world. It doesn’t leave us when our eyes grow heavy in death. It doesn’t leave us ever.
God never promised that life would be easy. He didn’t promise earthly happiness. He promised His Presence. “Lo, I am with you always,” in the Supper and in the waters. We may wrestle with God over the stuff of life that rattles us and then try to hold Him to promises of glee and bliss on this earth that He never made. But in the end there is only the Incarnation and the Resurrection. And in between those there is only the crucifixion. So, when our time of dying comes, and we look around for the promises of God we will find the death of Jesus and in that death we shall find life in God.
When all else fails, which includes our hearts, there is always Christ crucified and the forgiveness from Him that flows to font and cup, upon and within us. And I’m good with the true comfort that offers.
Rev. Gaven M. Mize serves as pastor at Augustana Lutheran Church, Hickory, North Carolina.
 
		 
		 Those images are still etched in my head-the picture of Christ, His eyes sunken with the weight of what is yet to come, His head pierced with thorns encircling his brow, and His own bride behind Him. Her arms are crossed and her head is down. She is clothed in a white garment that covers her and makes her beautiful-the kind of beauty that is not found within this world and the kind of beauty that is holy and pure because of Christ. And there’s another picture: the bride, with her arms still crossed and her eyes gazing at her Husband, slain and wounded on the cross, His body hanging in suspension and coming down to meet her, looking at her with eyes filled with love and mercy.
Those images are still etched in my head-the picture of Christ, His eyes sunken with the weight of what is yet to come, His head pierced with thorns encircling his brow, and His own bride behind Him. Her arms are crossed and her head is down. She is clothed in a white garment that covers her and makes her beautiful-the kind of beauty that is not found within this world and the kind of beauty that is holy and pure because of Christ. And there’s another picture: the bride, with her arms still crossed and her eyes gazing at her Husband, slain and wounded on the cross, His body hanging in suspension and coming down to meet her, looking at her with eyes filled with love and mercy.  
		 “You are the same species as God.” That’s what a visiting presenter said about a month ago at Immanuel Lutheran Church of Pensacola, Florida. As I sat there, I’d like to say that you could hear a pin drop, but that wasn’t the case. What I saw instead were people who had their systems shocked. They weren’t angry or appalled. The audience didn’t disagree. It was just that the gears got jolted. We all paused. We all pondered. We all thought, “Yep. Can’t argue with that.” Of course, context is everything.
“You are the same species as God.” That’s what a visiting presenter said about a month ago at Immanuel Lutheran Church of Pensacola, Florida. As I sat there, I’d like to say that you could hear a pin drop, but that wasn’t the case. What I saw instead were people who had their systems shocked. They weren’t angry or appalled. The audience didn’t disagree. It was just that the gears got jolted. We all paused. We all pondered. We all thought, “Yep. Can’t argue with that.” Of course, context is everything. 
		 I love Alvin and the Chipmunks as much as the next guy. But hearing “Christmas time is near” makes me think of the endless to-do lists and stress that often mark this season. Real Christmas music doesn’t direct us to holiday-themed, liturgically colored overfunctioning. It replaces “Do this!” with “It is finished!” Take a quick journey down a road of comfort and joy…
I love Alvin and the Chipmunks as much as the next guy. But hearing “Christmas time is near” makes me think of the endless to-do lists and stress that often mark this season. Real Christmas music doesn’t direct us to holiday-themed, liturgically colored overfunctioning. It replaces “Do this!” with “It is finished!” Take a quick journey down a road of comfort and joy… 
		 Christmas songs: Love ’em or hate ’em, you can’t get away from them. They are as ubiquitous in this season as candy canes, Christmas lights, and those silly reindeer decorations you put on your car. They are a cultural staple from Thanksgiving to December 25th.
Christmas songs: Love ’em or hate ’em, you can’t get away from them. They are as ubiquitous in this season as candy canes, Christmas lights, and those silly reindeer decorations you put on your car. They are a cultural staple from Thanksgiving to December 25th. 
		 The virgin birth has been a joke since God first told us about it. The Lord foretold it to Ahaz, a king so evil he could legitimately tell the average comic book super-villain to get on his level. When he heard it, he just rolled his eyes. “Surely, I will not put the Lord to the test. I need no signs from you.”
The virgin birth has been a joke since God first told us about it. The Lord foretold it to Ahaz, a king so evil he could legitimately tell the average comic book super-villain to get on his level. When he heard it, he just rolled his eyes. “Surely, I will not put the Lord to the test. I need no signs from you.” 
		 “Are we wearing angel costumes tonight, Miss Bethany?” asked one of my Sunday School choir students right before the Christmas program. As much as my heart sank to tell her, “No, will not have costumes to wear,” I continued to beam with joy in the anticipation of the children’s voices during the Christmas program that afternoon. All around me the “Shepherds’ Christmas stage” was set. Parents, grandparents, friends, and neighbors flocked in like shepherds, familiar with the toils and struggles of this life. As good parents, of course, they wanted to hear their children. But as sinners, they were ready to hear the Gospel, which was proclaimed on this night from the “mouths of children…a stronghold against [God’s] enemies,” the true good news of salvation through Jesus Christ. These “shepherds” sat in the pews with nothing but empty hands, ready to hear, ready to receive.
“Are we wearing angel costumes tonight, Miss Bethany?” asked one of my Sunday School choir students right before the Christmas program. As much as my heart sank to tell her, “No, will not have costumes to wear,” I continued to beam with joy in the anticipation of the children’s voices during the Christmas program that afternoon. All around me the “Shepherds’ Christmas stage” was set. Parents, grandparents, friends, and neighbors flocked in like shepherds, familiar with the toils and struggles of this life. As good parents, of course, they wanted to hear their children. But as sinners, they were ready to hear the Gospel, which was proclaimed on this night from the “mouths of children…a stronghold against [God’s] enemies,” the true good news of salvation through Jesus Christ. These “shepherds” sat in the pews with nothing but empty hands, ready to hear, ready to receive. 
		 As I have written several times here: I love the practices that we have in the Church. I love learning about them and why we do what we do. Coming from an unchurched background, I had to learn everthing. I didn’t know anything. The truth is, as a kid, I didn’t know what a nativity scene had to do with Christmas. Christmas was about Santa. What’s with these people wearing bathrobes anyway?
As I have written several times here: I love the practices that we have in the Church. I love learning about them and why we do what we do. Coming from an unchurched background, I had to learn everthing. I didn’t know anything. The truth is, as a kid, I didn’t know what a nativity scene had to do with Christmas. Christmas was about Santa. What’s with these people wearing bathrobes anyway? 
		 What a ridiculous thing to say: God is born. A contradiction of terms. God is eternal. Without beginning. How can He be born? There must be some divine trick, some heavenly illusion at work at Christmas. But against all human reason, the angel appears to Mary and says, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Highest will overshadow you; therefore, also, that Holy One who is to be born will be called the Son of God” (Luke 1:35 NKJV). No tricks here, just the promise of the ages coming to its fulfillment in time: the Seed of the woman born to crush the serpent’s head (Genesis 3:15).
What a ridiculous thing to say: God is born. A contradiction of terms. God is eternal. Without beginning. How can He be born? There must be some divine trick, some heavenly illusion at work at Christmas. But against all human reason, the angel appears to Mary and says, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Highest will overshadow you; therefore, also, that Holy One who is to be born will be called the Son of God” (Luke 1:35 NKJV). No tricks here, just the promise of the ages coming to its fulfillment in time: the Seed of the woman born to crush the serpent’s head (Genesis 3:15). 
		 Life is fragile. Hold onto it too hard and fiercely and you will break it. Hold it too softly and detached and you will miss its giftedness. Tonight almighty God descends to fragile human flesh. Christmas Eve is a fragile flood of emotions fraying our flesh into its greatest need. So much is wrapped up into this night. The jumbled and incriminating past is often relived-its trail of tears an ocean so deep. The present is grasped by any means necessary, by a toy, a cookie, a smile, a hug, a kiss next to the Christmas tree. The future is pregnant with both joy and fear, with hope and skepticism. And although St. Luke pens for us what many envision as a holy and silent night, a moment when angels bent the heavens low in song and shepherds stoically tended their flocks by night, Mary and Joseph were awed by the face of God cooing celestial sounds, it was, in reality, a fragile night. It was a night not unlike yours.
Life is fragile. Hold onto it too hard and fiercely and you will break it. Hold it too softly and detached and you will miss its giftedness. Tonight almighty God descends to fragile human flesh. Christmas Eve is a fragile flood of emotions fraying our flesh into its greatest need. So much is wrapped up into this night. The jumbled and incriminating past is often relived-its trail of tears an ocean so deep. The present is grasped by any means necessary, by a toy, a cookie, a smile, a hug, a kiss next to the Christmas tree. The future is pregnant with both joy and fear, with hope and skepticism. And although St. Luke pens for us what many envision as a holy and silent night, a moment when angels bent the heavens low in song and shepherds stoically tended their flocks by night, Mary and Joseph were awed by the face of God cooing celestial sounds, it was, in reality, a fragile night. It was a night not unlike yours. 
  